Before I say anything, I'm very Aromantic, and the thought of romance repulses/scares me but I think the dude I hung out with today thought it was a date... I was up front when her first asked to go somewhere that I only wanted to hang out and that I didn't like romance (also on a side note, is sweetness really used a pet name for someone? I never heard it used like that) He payed for the meal (even though I wanted to split it) and we watched anime at his place but I think he was alluding this as a date and now I feel super bad since he paid for the meal and was VERY not wanting of me to pay. I really want to pay him back for what he spent and its making me feel like ****. I cant stand this I don't know what to do about it. I work with him tomorrow, should I confront him about this? I also don't want to out myself as aromantic and I don't do well with confrontation but I will feel like an asshole if I don't do something :/

Edit: I should also note that he brought roses and a stuffed animal