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Originally Posted by Hopingtrying
Since you offered to pay your half, I don't think you should feel bad. It was just one meal. If you do not feel like you have chemistry with him then perhaps decline future invitations? However, he sounds really, really sweet!! So many people would have loved having a date like this. I apologize if you have already discussed--why would you find this type of romantic gesture repulsive? Do you find it immature or are you afraid to give someone a real try?
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It's pretty much just cause I'm aromantic, it feels weird and wrong whenever someone expresses romantic attraction towards me. It makes me feel gross whenever someone shows interest in me romantically I guess is what i'm saying and the thought of people looking at me romantically also feels off. I don't find it immature and just using someone as a "let me test to see if I truely feel romantic inclinations" feels wrong. He is sweet but we also don't share much of any connection as I view him as a work buddy