Is that too much to ask? I went to go order a new birth certificate today and they want a damn marriage certificate showing where I changed my name. I tore apart everything in this house for 40 mins and couldn't find the damn thing. I need a new birth certificate and a new SSN card so I can get a mother ****ing REAL ID so I can ****ing fly. So I guess I'm not going to NY to see my husband anytime soon. I really wanted to go up in april for our wedding anniversary. I guess I'll just see him in July when he comes home for a week. I just want to spend time with him. We haven't been talking much lately. I miss him. When we do talk, he's distracted. This is lame.