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Old Feb 15, 2018, 10:01 AM
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I was going to try EMDR but I can't seem to find an ethical therapist who can provide safety...

Did those of you who did EMDR work with your therapists for a long time before doing it?
How can you tell they are ethical or not from reading their profile? Or did you do interview a few of them?
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.