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Originally Posted by Carmina
I know - tried it once but too expensive and I think they still seem to limit who you see
The new message rules make it much harder as you can't even message someone now you like, they have to like you back first but how would they know? It's really dumb.
Anyway fact is I find it hard to feel that motivated, I check in occasionally but not often. When I do get a message I'm scared about answering and not even sure if I would be suitable for someone to love me because no one ever has really apart from my daughter. Women don't want guys with 'baggage' or who have low confidence and I don't really blame them, I probably wouldn't want me either.
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I LOVE the new rule. I think OkC is doing a lot better in finding ways to protect women. I think for me, it makes it more interactive, too. It makes me actually go on there, and "like" someone and in order to do that I have to look at their profile and see if I actually like it.
Sorry OkC is a bummer for you. I don't think every woman doesn't want a man with low confidence and baggage. For instance, that is not a deal breaker for me. What is a deal breaker is continuous emotional immaturity, someone I don't click with, boundary violations, and someone who doesn't want to grow within the relationship. thats a lot different from baggage, which EVERYONE has.