Hello, I have written here a couple of times over having some romantic feelings for my therapist. I ignored those feelings that I had for him and I never told him about it because I felt embarrassed about it. I did tell my husband and he told me to be more aware and not let anything happen. I ended up just moving on and I did find someone else attractive for a while but decided not to take it anywhere.
I have started talking about possibly moving away because my husband wants to move out of the city. I have also wanted to move out of where I live for a long time because it's very hectic. My therapist and I were still getting closer and having some chats about everyday stuff.
I have noticed him being different with me. He seems annoyed or sometimes makes me feel like the stuff I am talking about is silly to him. I don't like it and I have been ignoring it but it has happened for weeks now. I am starting to like going less to therapy and we barely work on my issues anymore.
I'm scared to talk to him about it as therapists usually just deny being weird with me and make me doubt myself. Which makes me more distant. I really liked working with him because he does EMDR but he rarely ever does that anymore. I am just getting really frustrated with him and scared it's not going to go right if I bring it up.
Does anybody have some experience or advice over how to handle this type of situation? I don't want to just quit going without saying anything first, I think. I have been very committed to therapy since the beginning so it's kind of hard for me him seeming to be making fun of stuff that stresses me out.
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