Getting your hair done is a wonderful form of self-care. I always feel good when I get mine done. I keep my hair sort of medium-length (a bob with bangs). Naturally it's super wavy (some say it's curly), which I like a lot, but it's nice to have the stylist drying it flat and flat iron the sucker. Taming my main is serious work! I'm not blond, though I was as a kid, but I have light brown hair that I get light highlights put in. It's true that lightening it up can really make a difference.