Does this post back last summer you made still what your living conditions are like now?
https://forums.psychcentral.com/rela...e-anymore.html

You said your father wasn't like this before his heart attacks & coma. I am wondering if he had some lack of oxygen to the brain while all this was going on because that woould explain the change in personality.

Your living conditions can explain much even in this thread. Yiyr BF was a LDR before he came to help you care for your dad. Did you really know much about him before moving in together to care for your dad?