So here I still sit in 2018.
5 years down the track and going back to the start of this thread I just want to thank all those that took the time to comment or the contribution of their stories.
I can see the pattern that emerged over time that has to lead to this point in time. Sorry about all the typos but you miss those sorts of things when you are on a roll and the words come out faster than the eye can see.
(Words from an uneducated hand)

So now as stress and anxiety take over for the next few weeks I thought I would just review some of my rambles to find the pattern the doctors don't worry telling you about in the beginning or you just don't want to hear.
All the pain in the pelvis and the kidney infection didn't really help or the up and down of the PSA and then the up.
The biopsy certainly didn't help anything but confirm what everyone knew.
The good news is I have scored a professor to do the surgery.

So now I wait for the date and the paperwork to go through.
And try and see the bits on here I can put together to calm my hands and soul till then

Thanks for reading .