How do you solve this?

I dont have these problems, but i feel very close to gays/lesbians/trans.... only that eventually some of them will find a way to match internal/external....

How can i force myself to match feelings and thoughts/wants?

Accepting them would be a first step, but even though im not there yet, how do you move on from there (or before than there or after?)

Will you ever find peace of mind? How?