We are allowed on unsupervised visits, just dinners out so far but it's something. The parental liaison is an go between for me and my ex. She doesn't know he did anything abusive she just decided she doesn't like him because he's poor and she said he's a liar. But mainly because he's poor. He's not a rich farmer, not a successful businessman, he's only working part-time not full-time and he's poor.