This points to a benefit of recording sessions. It's not why I do it, but it really helps to listen later, when I'm in a different state, and see if that's what was said or not. If he's gaslighting you, that is so not okay. The way he responded by saying he knows now not to talk about other clients? Um, he should have known when he was in T school not to do that.

As an aside, I don't see giving leftover office candy to a therapist as particularly boundary busting.

Sorry, but he's going to have work a lot harder to make this okay for me. (That was a joke.) (Not really.)