I attached and then got obsessed. Attachment doesnt disturb me, its okay that you have a great person to talk to and like him/her as a person but when you got obsessed it's really hard because it's addiction which takes over.
I think that attachment and obsession/addiction are different things because I am attached to some people and its nice to talk to them I feel joy to meet them but when Im addicted it's like drugs when you are never enough and it takes over your mind.
Thats my opinion about attachment.
I didnt attach all Ts I had but also when I wasnt attached I felt okay to talk to them.