He bought me chocolates and flowers. Paid for most of our dates. Told me every day how beautiful and perfect my body is. I'm fat btw. How much he loves me, and that he loves me more than he's ever loved before. He's not violent that was an assumption that's wrong. He told me stories of defending women who were abused by husbands. He took me on frequent dates. He cooked for me. Fixed my broken down car.

I figured he worked part time to tend to the farm but he used to work 2 part time jobs not sure why not full time. .ight be hard to find where he's from. His truck is broken down right now and he can't afford to fix it yet. That is part of the reason he wasn't coming up.

But my mom put in her head that he had to come up before i could go down again. And if he loved me he'd fix his car and get to me. His complaint no privacy at my moms she intrudes and he was worried he lose his temper with her again. Mom says I deserve better someone who can support me she used to say now it's someone who can make my dreams come true.

He got fed up with her interference and it was her that forbid me to go down to see him. Yet I can go move in with him. Both say so, but I say not about to leave my job and therapy my for a guy I was having doubts about.