Do you really want to be friends on Fb? Do you want to think about balancing your need for emotional support or developing skills with what is going on in t's world?
The t relationship gets to be all about us because the t keeps their stuff out of our sight. It is to our benefit. Suppose you did become friends with t. How many friendships do you have that are all about you, in which you do all the talking all the time, and you can tell your friend everything without judgment or fear of gossip? Do these friendships last long?
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