I have come to this forum twice before. This is my third and final try. Many on this site seem genuinely to care about themselves and others. The rest of the people here are rather self centered. If you are in “the clique” then you are welcome to post and to engage. The rest of us new “losers” are made to feel uncomfortable, unwanted, or even plain ridiculous. I am thanking those of you that have been so supportive. To the others I say to heck with you. You make me feel worse than I did before.