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Originally Posted by Patagonia
Did you ask this person outright if they were in a relationship?
Was it lied about or just never brought up?
You said it was by pure accident you discovered this, what do you think would’ve happened if it continued?
(I’m not pointing any fingers, I’m just wondering what the other side of this looks like if it’s possible)
I’m sorry this happened to you & im sure you feel outraged by it.
But does your outrage of being duped justify telling the other women.
It’s just not a very black & white sided situation.
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He actively lied. Said he wasn't with anyone.
I've no idea what would've happened if it continued, I suppose one of us wouldve found out eventually.
I'm telling her because I think she should know not because I'm outraged. I am outraged but that's directed at him. As others have replied here he could have other women along for the ride, she doesn't deserve to be treated with so little respect. I know it's not a black and white situation and I'm feeling pretty awful about the whole thing but ultimately I think it's the right thing to do to tell her.
Thank you for your replies everyone. I will let you know how it goes.