I told my T about a crush on an older woman. She thinks my crush on the older woman is caused by abuse. I am honest with her and she’s not happy with my answers. I’m getting frustrated and she gets defensive when I confront her.

It started when I got mad because she didn’t approve of my friendship with an older woman. She wants to come out to my crush and tell her I’m physically attracted to her. I don’t feel comfortable doing that. I feel it’s not right to go up to some stranger and be like hey I’m attracted to you want to go out. I want to be friends with this woman first so I can “feel her out” but my T thinks that’s a horrible thing