Yes, I won't begin my thoughts on their weight. But they are also under a lot of stress...50-60+ hour weeks, working two weeks straight, working on insurance and buying a home...but still, I've noticed that's how they are right now...always talking about themselves and as soon as they ask me how I'm doing they turn it around to talk about themselves. I know my weight loss is a "big deal" but maybe I am the unsupportive one?