Well it’s the fourth day of my surgery and I only have one arm. I was feeling sorry for myself because I kept wondering if I was going to be able to care for myself after surgery. So when a friend called and offered help I insisted that I was okay and could get by. That is borderline true but my independent stance was pretty adamant. Reality is that it would be nice to have someone around but I’ve been alone so long that it is hard to accept a hand. This time I might make it but I should probably swallow my pride in the future and grab that hand...... still struggling a bit but it should get easier 🤔🤔🤔