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Originally Posted by irnmn316
At this point that’s all I can do is manipulate her. I just don’t know what else to do. I found out her new husband takes the iPads I gave them for personal use and communication and he is using them. Even knows the passwords. He also has access to my iTunes which is he and her watch movies and all that. But that is a little thing compared to all of it. Like she told my youngest who’s name is Christopher to shorten his name because “that’s how it really is now” so he has been calling himself Chris. I don’t understand this. How is she is horrible?
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Yes, do whatever you can to get your children away from her where they can live with you and have their own space and can "feel" safe. You don't have to live in a palace, what is more important is that your children feel safe and can better predict having a safer environment instead of what they are experiencing with their mother. As your children are getting older your ex is showing she can't handle it because they have minds of their own which will make her feel less able to control them. Nammu could be correct in that it's possible that your ex has narcissistic personality disorder. That could explain her being dissatisfied and bored and having so many different relationships. Only a qualified professional would be able to diagnose her, all we can do here is state some could be's but we are not professionals.