I am thinking of you. I have been there. It is possible to get out, but you need a plan...think of every friend (of yours, not one to tip him off), family, women’s shelter that welcome children.

It is possible but do NOT tell him. I’m a mom and left with my child and the clothes on my back. I didn’t have time to prepare a bag of clothes, etc, but it was ok.

Scary? Yes. I had a friend to protect me and a place to go. 16 year marriage. I’m a mom, too. No regrets. I’m healthier. I wouldn’t be here if I hadn’t gotten out.

OutoftheFog dot com is a resource.

Call Mobile Crisis. I’m not familiar but it sounds good. The kids will be ok, take them.

Restraining orders sometimes escalate behavior. There should be a domestic violence advocate at your local court house. Go to the clerk’s office and ask to speak to someone in d.v. But the restraining order..your choice, I can’t advise.

See a domestic family lawyer, free consultation.

I’m in a mixed episode so may be slow on PMs, but I’ll reply and support you. You CAN do this.

PS: I’d go to a shelter with the kids when he’s not home if time is of the essence. Pack some clothes, toiletries. Your phone but don’t answer calls or texts from him. Document. Transportation, have some cash on hand. Call the shelter and say you need help now. You’re still “there” inside, I understand. Please know you can find a way...put your strength, faith, all in this.