Yes, I did have that happen. I continued to see the person. It didn't work out.
IF you and the T could discuss the contempt -- when he feels it for you and when you feel it for him -- then maybe it could be helpful? But often, in my experience with therapy, those feelings are not discussed. It's very painful to feel that someone has contempt for you, and can be embarrassing to admit that one feels contempt for somebody else, and if the T can't tolerate that either, then for me it has been a dilemma that has not worked out.
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