And I wrote back “ha ha”, and she replied, “no really, how long do I have to wait?” She is beyond horrid.

One of the hallmarks of BPD is unstable, strange relationships. She is one who falls into that category. My thing, is that I gravitate to kookier people as friends because I enjoy them, they are fun and interesting, I get bored easily from ‘normies’. So, that is my attraction to her. She is hilariously funny, but in a Don Rickles way.

She’s the kind of person who cuts you down while acting like she’s joking.

The other friend is very sweet, she means well. We recently became close again.

I think I’ve handled some people, who just aren’t good people, in a good way.

I understand what it means to be a friend. I’ve been a good wife and mother. I treat people fairly and respectfully.

Anyway- my caustic friend is the least of my problems. Screw her.