Hmmm, this is highly unprofessional and I would think goes against whatever code of conduct a therapist must adhere too.

I am so sorry you are experiencing this.

I attended a conference of mental health professionals once as a guest. Each identified their specialty on the name tags the wore. By coincidence those that specialised in gender related health seemed the youngest in the building. Some apparently were just completing their final rotations at med school. So, just a thought here, is there a med school nearby? Is it possible to get yourself the help you need from someone fresh from training?