a lot of things change in your body when you become sexually active. its possible that since youre in your early 20s your hormones could be all out of whack. ive had lots of problems like you describe mentally and found out a few years into having them that I have PCOS (poly cystic ovary syndrome). my testosterone was too high and my estrogen was too low. so my emotions were all over the place! you might want to go to the doctor to get some blood work done just to make sure its not hormonal. if you come back all clear then maybe its just lack of attraction which doesn't make you weird. could be stress. are you in college? i know when im in school im perfectly fine with having sex once a month lol. but during the summer man, im all over it!

women's bodies are very sensitive. just about anything can throw us off, especially during child bearing age. lack of sleep, stress, even change in diet can drastically change your mood and even your bodily functions.

if you want something natural and not medication to try and help you out i would honestly try pilates. i do it 4 times a week and feel much better, mind and body. i totally understand how you feel and have felt the same way with my current boyfriend. doing things like pilates and yoga can increase your mood in a short period time and totally change your whole outlook on things. maybe youre just feeling a little blah. thats usually my problem.