I believe most people are passionate (or really enjoy it) about something. Sure there are people who have no interests or hobbies and are just “blah” or as you said “sit on their rump” but why would you date someone like that?

Passionate about career could mean person enjoys it but it doesn’t necessarily mean they’d be going to work on their days off. Some jobs don’t even allow it. I love my job very much but certainly I don’t neglect my husband. I am passionate about art but it doesn’t come before well being of my loved ones.

But if you prefer someone with no particular hobbies/interests or passions you can find someone like that too I guess...

I think unless you talk to people you can’t really know if by “passionate” they mean they have exciting hobbies and are enjoying it or that they are obsessed and addicted to things.

I also see some contradictions. You don’t like men who have passions for things and prefer them sitting on their rumps, at the same time you are saying they seem bland and uninteresting. It’s confusing.

Is there something you particularly enjoy doing?