I’m really not feeling very verbal. I’m not in a position to judge. The only thing is, I personally have been used by someone I thought was a “friend” and who swore everlasting “friendship” .. my stuff. Stupid me for believing them.
I was unsure about replying... I’m sorry if my post came across “wrong” - they often do when I use words
I also have an extremely distant “family” .. I empathise with that