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Old Feb 18, 2018, 05:04 PM
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Originally Posted by roseboi View Post
Yeah she just sat there, because it was kind of burst of emotion there was a point where I was like "I'm fine, I'm done crying whatever" and was talking and took a deep breath and started crying again and right before I closed my eyes looked like she was going to get up, but when I looked back at her she just sat calmly waiting to ask what happened, or some common T response after a client cries.
Yep it is common and it sucks and it would have made me freak out and feel shame, so we talked about it often before I actually cried and told him I prefer comfort, not sure it's common for T's to hold crying clients but he has put the offer out that if I cry again, his shoulder is there...

You could always discuss with her a way for her to react that might make you comfortable?
Thanks for this!
growlycat