At the moment my meaning in life is found in the life of my son who recently graduated and is job hunting now at my sister's house but he refuses to talk to me. Or our texts irritate him, he views just about anything I say as either "feedback" "suggestions" or "advise" none of which he wants. So he is constantly saying he doesn't want to talk about what I just said and it is tiring for him. Now he muted messenger.

My sister says he is approaching his job hunting in a thoughtful way thinking of the overall trajectory of his career and I am sure he is getting all the help he needs. I would like to simply share the experience he is going through but he doesn't want that from me right now or I am not approaching it in the right way, or possibly both. It could be an unresolved anger from a fraught relationship we have had. IDK

Any insight, advise, suggestions or comments would be appreciated. I need another perspective to look at this.