You're welcome. I really don't wish to come across here as 'mean.' I could have easily have told you that she is madly in love with you. Based upon what you have told us here, that would be wrong. I am sure that there is much more to the story but it sounds to me that she needs help. You can't help her. She might change her mind if you offered money, but why should you have to pay for her (pretend) love?