Comfortable, steady, safe, warm, home, calm,

I went from a very insecure relationship with an ex-T to my current T almost 3 years ago. It's absolutely wonderful and not anxiety provoking. We've talked about she's like home to me. I no longer worry what she thinks of me or how I might affect her or vice versa. I know she's there for me and don't question any motives. As someone else said, if she upsets me I know we will work it out. It just feels so normal, good and healing.