I've posted a few times about my sex life with bf, about how it was hot and heavy in the beginning and then started to dwindle. I had gotten to a place where I accepted it and was happy when I got it. Well now there's a new problem. On new years eve, when we kissed at midnight, he kept kissing me. We were on the couch and the way he was sitting, it kind of "squished" things. He has his feet up on on the coffee table. Anyway, he lost his erection becuase of it, and we were unsuccessful that night. Then a week later he stayed the night, and he couldn't get an erection, and he said he was afraid that would happen. Its like he had it in his head because it had happened the week prior.

Nothing has happened since then. I don't even bother trying anymore. Sometimes I try little sexual comments in conversation but he never reciprocates.

I feel like I've totally switched roles, because in the past I never wanted it, and I hated feeling forced by my partners, so I don't push the issue. It just sucks though. Everything else about our relationship is awesome. And now I enjoy sex and he never wants it. We move in together next month.....maybe that will make a difference?

Guys? Tips? Suggestions? Ideas?

Gals? Have you been where I'm at? What did you do about it?