Yes, I think it is important that you like your therapist.
And... I think it is important that your therapist likes you.
I agree with what others have said about how sometimes a person can grow on you even though they rub you up the wrong way initially.
But I also understand that sometimes the fit is simply not there and three sessions (or even one hundred sessions) ain't gonna fix that.
A lot of it does indeed depend on WHY you didn't click with her. I've had some who I didn't return to, and I've had some who I gave a chance over a few more sessions (and some of those worked and some of those didn't).
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