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Originally Posted by Hopingtrying
Of confrontation? Of divorce? That I will have a mental breakdown in an extended confrontation/divorce? That I cannot win in any argument I have with him so why go throught the pain?
Also, the timing seems wrong (yet I posted this!  ) my H is worried about his mom's health right now. It is making him more irritable because he really loves her..... |
If he is always right in an argument, then those arguments are not fair. That is not healthy. Do you feel he is controlling of you? And abusive towards you? Gaslighting is a form of abuse. Him reading the forum is rather controlling..... controlling relationships are abusive relationships. I don't know if yours is, but that's always the case.