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Originally Posted by golden_eve
If he is always right in an argument, then those arguments are not fair. That is not healthy. Do you feel he is controlling of you? And abusive towards you? Gaslighting is a form of abuse. Him reading the forum is rather controlling..... controlling relationships are abusive relationships. I don't know if yours is, but that's always the case.
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This post was actually triggered by another incident/confrontation at home yesterday/last night. It is something that is personal (and involves more than just me--I don't feel right discussing details) but is something that is a consistent trigger for me. We did discuss it this morning. My H said (paraphrasing the meaning), it is going to be my way or I am going (implying divorce separation). What do I do? I propose delaying what he proposes we do. It is not in my nature to disagree/ be confrontational. I suppose I do not always hide how I feel but I sugar coat everything rather than being completely frank.
