This post was actually triggered by another incident/confrontation at home yesterday/last night. It is something that is personal (and involves more than just me--I don't feel right discussing details) but is something that is a consistent trigger for me. We did discuss it this morning. My H said (paraphrasing the meaning), it is going to be my way or I am going (implying divorce separation). What do I do? I propose delaying what he proposes we do. It is not in my nature to disagree/ be confrontational. I suppose I do not always hide how I feel but I sugar coat everything rather than being completely frank.