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Originally Posted by golden_eve
He said it's his way or he leaves????? That is fundamentally not right and not OK. A truly loving relationships is a two-way street, always!!! Both partners need to respect the other's need to be heard and respected. It seems he does not allow you to be heard and respected.
Hon, I would think twice about staying with this controlling H of yours. This is very controlling behavior. Abuse is always about control. That is very manipulative on his part.. he is not giving you a voice in this relationship. I wouldn't want to stay if it were me, but I understand how hard that can be after 30 years of marriage. (((Hugs)))
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Eve- you are in the looking for the right guy for a LT relationship. Just to point out to you, I don’t know anybody who has a really healthy relationship. There is so much dysfunction to put up with, at best quirkiness to handle. Partners are never ideal (at least no one I know). We make such compromises.
