The dance was at a party some friends were at. I went there to help them clean up after the concert.
I've decided that I look stupid no matter what I do, so I might as well try to look stupid and have fun doing it. I think that's humility? It's part of getting past that part of me that says "no! They're all gonna laugh at you!" It's why I try all the exercise classes I'm so terrible at. There's a thrill in learning it and even just making it through the class. Looking like a goon while doing it is a plus.