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Feb 19, 2018, 12:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Emily Fox Seaton
a friend's husband was passionate about his music job as musical director of a church. He made no money. Popped out two kids with his wife. When he was never around *because of his so important job* she divorced him. Wait for it... she now has to pay him Alimony. I always felt she married and have kids due to pressure from parents (her family is very religious).
But I just don't see any human over 25 who can legitimately be passionate about music. That is a red flag. But mostly the answers are things that IMHO people think they need to say.
I really don't know if e-harmony is legit. So far all my "matches" are not really matches. I don't think I have anything in common with them.
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Well, I do know plenty of people over the age of 25 who are passionate about music and legitimately are musicians who make good salaries playing with the symphony or other ensembles and/or teaching.
I just felt like I didn't have very many matches and, yes, didn't really seem like we would match up intellectually and interest wise.
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