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Originally Posted by divine1966
Typically when people break up, they don’t make dramatic announcements about stopping loving or having no feelings. Things she told you were clear indications that it’s over. Telling you that this “isn’t working” plus going on dating other men right away is pretty much indication that she moved on.
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Thank you very much yet again for your reply and opinions.
I don't disagree about the dramatic announcements, but I do disagree about "it's over" as "clear." We continued to interact and chat with one another for several months after initially breaking up. Moreover, she continued to state that she had feelings, missed me, loved me and so on.
She seemed to say "it isn't working" when it was in her self-interest. She allegedly continue to try with me for how ever long after she dumped me. Again, she allegedly started dating men to attempt to move on from me, yet still chose for me to be in her life to an extent. She also told me that she did not want to be sexual with anyone else.
With the above content as evidence and with other details that I have not included, she seemed to be anything but "clear" with me. Moreover, if she were to have been clear, I most likely would have been differently than how I have been and am now.
Even though, as you said, she conveyed indications it was "over for her," she also conveyed plenty that "'it' was not over for her." She intentionally or unintentionally conveyed mixed feelings, messages, contradictions and so on to me, whether it was to keep me guessing, on her call, confused or no purpose at all. One of the main issues is that she was not "clear."