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Originally Posted by hvert
Ouch, I don't know that you are overthinking or that it's too early. I think your post title pretty much nails it, you aren't on the same wavelength (at least for that conversation). Maybe he just takes longer to warm up? It's really hard to say. I'm with you, the talk about moving in together, the promise ring, all of that stuff doesn't really match up with you *not* being the one... so maybe he meant something different from what you heard?
Do you think you could talk to him about 'the one' conversation you had?
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I wont see him til the weekend, but i talked to my mom and she suggested i meet up with him over coffee or something and talk.
Honestly, i wouldnt know what to say at this point. Im highly confused. I feel like at this point the relationship is just kinda flowing freely with him. The only goal he seems to have for the relationship (right now anyway) is to move in with me at some point. Im confused because of the talk of moving in and the promise ring. Especially the talk of moving in. Because thats a huge step for me.
We both live with our parents still. Ive wondered if he just wants to move out of there. Idk. I don’t necessarily want to sign a lease with someone who doesnt seem to want to marry me or AT LEAST give me a sign/clue to that. Idk...maybe the promise ring is a clue?
I mean he seems genuine about everything. Says he wouldnt do or say things unless he meant it.
Like i said, he didnt say i wasnt the one (i think), but he also didnt say i was.
Seems like everytime i bring something about the future up he keeps his answers pretty neutral. Not for or against anything. So im so confused.