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Old Feb 20, 2018, 09:50 AM
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Originally Posted by golden_eve View Post
Well, the promise ring.. doesn't that represent a promise for an engagement or am I wrong? At the same time, since he says it's too soon for him to know, I wouldn't push it.

If you don't feel comfortable moving in together before knowing that you're "the one", then don't do it yet. You can say you're not ready for that.

It is only five months into the relationship. Relax, sit back and enjoy for now. I wouldn't worry so much about a marriage with this person yet. It is far too soon to really know or to be talking about it. He is being smart and is taking his time. Nothing wrong with that. It takes a long time to really get to know a person fully, inside and out.


I read some articles and agree. Especially if he himself says its too early. But i didnt see harm in confessing that sort of love to him. But i guess it was too early.

I read that a promise ring represents engagement. He told me it represents his love for me and his dedication to me. We wouldnt be moving in until mid year or late this year. Which the relationship would be almost a year by then. Ill gauge it again around that time. What i mean is ill bring it up again around that time. Nothing about marriage, just about how i feel for him that deeply again.

I dont want to ruin the relationship. Its going very well besides all that stuff.
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