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Feb 20, 2018, 04:48 PM
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Originally Posted by lady411
Definitely counting the days. We have only been together about 4 yrs but love each other very much. It was a mistake that with good communication & understanding should never repeat itself.
This brings me to the question of whether I should create a moving contract 30 days prior to move out date. Something which i know will stir up an argument with HB if brought up.
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I think you need to research legally what you need to do. Do you need to give him 30 days written notice? What are you going to do on March 31 when he doesn't move out? Sorry, I've seen too many friends allow family or so-called friends to bunk with them and then they won't leave, and then by that time they've established residence. This brother has stayed long enough to now be considered a resident. You legally will have to evict him if he doesn't leave on his own. And you can't just call the cops. Now that he's established residence, regardless of paying rent or not, he is entitled to be there.
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