Hi. I am on the other end of the stick. I am the wife of a husband who is gone to work. We have been together married for seven years and have two kids ages 5&4. I can't speak for your wife but I can speak for me and my other friends who are in the same boat(there are 4 of us). We don't have time to shave our legs when our husbands are out of town. Kids take up a lot of time. I am on both of my kids school boards. We are busy volunteering for the schools. Not to mention Skating, Dance, Swimming, ect. I personally have no desire to go out and cheat on my husband and if I did what would I do with my kids? Where would I meet a new man. In the grocery store when I have stuff spilled all over me and a couple of kids climbing all over the cart. My husband is a good man, he is a great provider, and when he comes home he takes the kids for a day so he can reconnect with them and so I can have a whole day to myself. I wouldn't risk losing him for anything. He trusts me as much as I trust him. I am thankful that he thinks that my character is so great that I wouldn't do anything to hurt him. I would honestly be hurt if he always suspected me of whoring around town and thought that I was such a bad mother I would just drop my kids somewhere to have a romp in the sack with some guy. He also just calls me once a day (at my request) not because I don't love to talk to him but I am just so busy during the day I can't talk anymore than that. Try making a list of what your wife does in one day (if you need help ask your mom) and then you might see exactly what she does. Sorry for the rambling but I just thought you might want to see it from the flip side.