I'm really sorry you are having to go through this.

Unfortunately, your partner does not live in the present moment, he lives in the past. He has a lot of self esteem issues. And if these issues did not present themselves in regards to your sexual relations in the past - they would show themselves in different ways.

You can't change any of this. All of this happened before you met your partner. These issues are for your partner to work on.

You have done a lot to meet him halfway - moving into the place for him, finding a job etc. How much is he doing for you? Don't allow him to fall into the "victim" role in this relationship whereby he acts overly needy and you run around the moment he clicks his finger. You will find yourself being emotionally drained.

I think you need boundaries now for discussing past sexual relationships. Allowing him to now continuously bring this up and ask you intimate questions and scrutinise every single detail is not going to do him any good (and he's proved that he can't handle hearing it either).

I found this article - 10 Ways to Deal With Your Partner's Sexual Past:

https://goodmenproject.com/sex-relat...e-you-have-to/