I ummmm, well, I have not much experience, but I have a question...When did y'all decide to move in together?? Maybe he is anxious at the countdown time and doesn't know how to talk about it??? It is just an idea...sorry if I am way off base...

For a hint, buy some of the intimate tingley or warming gel...mogs suprised me with some, but he fell in love with it and LOVES the way it feels...anyway, talking is better than feeling snubbed or unsexy when rebuffed by not getting any. I hope it all works out...If you don't know how to bring it up, a private corner at a restaurant where you are on 'nuetral' ground will help tremendously...if you cant talk...like me...too shy about things like that...i tell moggles i want to talk and i lay my head on his shoulder and we turn out the lights and i can tell him anything...he cant see my face and yet i am reassured by his arm around me...even though right now he is trying to do the 'wave' with his belly saying it is same as crunches...lol

hope for the best...melanie