Yes yes yes. T1 would break her boundaries all the time and it always seemed like I was "special" Then she would tighten them up again and I would feel terrible. An example would be that a few times she mentioned other clients. No privacy breaches just things like saying marriage counselling could be hard or other little things. Then one day it was more "other clients never email me. Idk why you do" and another day I asked a generic question only to get snapped "I'm not discussing other clients with you" as if I had broken a rule.

Special relationships gross me out. That rule bending only led me to therapy problems