Welcome to the forums Gary!

The people here are great. They are truly the most compassionate, non-judgemental group of people I have met in a long time.

I would have to agree with a lot of what you say. As much as people say otherwise, in American society, looks are very important. Many people make snap judgements based on first impressions/appearances. Which means those of us who aren't as "beautiful" as society deems necessary have to work extra hard.

It's hard for "beautiful people" to understand but many do. I was dead set against seeing the movie Shallow Hal...but I eventually caught it on cable and I really liked it. I loved how it showed what people looked like on the inside.

Anyway...I'm babbling! Welcome again!