In my family of origin I think I was the least favorite child. Now I’m doomed to ingratiating myself towards those I feel closest to. I’m sure it is super unwell of me. I have been told that I have an anxious attachment style which means that I’d subvert my own needs to please the other person in the relationship. I know I need to work on it. I’m trying to start by verbalizing what is going on for me and not threatening to quit like I did recently.